Thursday, March 11, 2010

You can use your popularity as a shield, and even hide behind your supermassive ego, but you can't run away from karma.

Bitches. Bullies.
We've all either endured their heartless comments or hurtful ways ourselves, or have seen them inflict sadism on others. It's not nice, and often the smallest insults or actions, or as they call them- 'jokes', go unpunished.

Just like today.
My friend Salma was slapped across the face by a girl, who then refused to admit that she had done something wrong even after being confronted. Salma reported the physical abuse to the Year 9 coordinator, who did nothing- yes, nothing- to resolve her complaint. This very same coordinator had stated in assembly at the beginning of this week that, "Bully is not acceptable and offenders will face the consequences. Speak up, and your voice will not go unheard."

Ever heard of the saying, "Practice what you preach"?

To make things worse, now people are publishing posts on Facebook about the incident- and making my friends look like the offenders. Like physical abuse wasn't enough that they had to bring cyber bullying into the situation too. All I can say now, is that what goes around- comes around.

 I'll end this post with a song by one of my favorite solo singers/ songwriter. It's about bullying in high school. In the song, she comes across as a bystander, but in an interview she stated that she herself was actually the victim of a bully. It's a sad but really meaningful song with great lyrics. Click HERE to listen to it!
Hope everyone has a nice bully- free weekend :)

Caught in the Crowd by Kate Miller- Heidke
There was a guy at my school, when I was in high school
We'd ride side by side in the morning on our bicycles
Never even spoken or faced each other
But on the last hill we'd race each other

When we reached the racks we'd each go our own way
I wasn't in his classes, I didn't know his name
When we finally got to speak he just stared at his feet
And mumbled a sentence that ended with 'James' 
(Chorus)
I was young and caught in the crowd
I didn't know then what I know now
I was dumb, and I was proud
And I'm sorry
If I could go back do it again
I'd be someone you could call friend
Please please believe that I'm sorry

Well he was quite a big guy, kinda shy and quiet
When the kids called him weird he didn't try to deny it
Every lunchtime he'd spend walking by himself
Round the boundary of the grounds til he heard the bell

Well one day I found him, joined him on his walk
We were silent for a while until we started to talk
I told him my family were fighting in court
He said his step-dad and him always fought

We talked about music, he was into punk
He told me all the bands that I liked were junk
I said I'd never heard the songs the Sex Pistols sang
I laughed back at him and then the bell rang

(Chorus)

It was after school in the afternoon
The corridors were crowded as we came out of the rooms
Three guys I knew pushed him into the cement
Threw away his bag and said he had no friends

He yelled that he did and he looked around
Tried getting up but they pushed him on down
That's when he saw me, called out my name
And I turned my back, and just walked away
I turned my back, and just walked away
(Chorus)

Please, please believe that I'm sorry

4 lovely comments:

  1. Excellent post! Thanks for sharing...

    Have a groovy weekend!

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  2. Put very well. Thank you for this!

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  3. aww thankyou so much! :) you're lovely :) xo

    please follow me.. ;) if your keen that is :)
    really appreciate it :)

    thankyou x 8)

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  4. aww I hope your friend is ok, and that quote at the top is very true xxx

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